It’s a natural instinct to try and protect ourselves from being hurt. Let’s face it, finding love puts us in a vulnerable position. When we put our heart on the line there is always a chance that it could get broken or rejected. It’s this fear that then causes us to start to heighten our defenses and play games to try and stay in control.
However, when there are games involved, it means there will always be a loser, and eventually that person will be the player. It doesn’t matter whether you are female or male, playing games is never going to bring you long- term happiness. In fact, it’s going
