Breakups can be great and divorce can be even better. Many people seem to be afraid of divorce. Sure, there are emotions and money involved. However, once those are taken care of, each party has the rest of their lives to be happier alone or with someone else. I have friends who've met with countless divorce attorneys and won't file for 10+ years because of alimony, child support, et al. Well, alimony won't go away. And one would lose more in terms of time than money if one values 10 years (or any amount of time) of his/her life? Is another 10 years of misery not worth $____? And if