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When it’s needed, breaking up is harder to do than anything except for not breaking up. But how do you know it’s time?
Are we having fun yet?
We all know relationships involve work. But good relationships are overbalanced towards fun and reward—by a factor of twenty. Literally, happy couples have 20x more positive interactions than negative, work-inducing ones.
And in a really solid dating relationship, the work often feels like play. Being in love is the great motivating force that helps us put in the time and effort to build a future together, feeling more like “us against the world” than “me against you.”
So if you’ve been settling for 50/50, that’s a